The Balcony…

TheBalcony

I love balconies. Trying to remember the first time I step out on to one and looked out smiling. Feeling that breeze from the ocean on my face and just loving being able to see the panorama view. If you get a chance to get a hotel room in New Orleans make sure you have one with a balcony facing Bourbon Street ~ you will not be disappointed even if it is not Mardi Gras.  Balconies can be so romantic as the scene from Romeo & Juliet where Juliet looks out and speaks “‘O Romeo, Romeo! {W}herefore art thou Romeo?”  I also love discovering new places that make Backdrops like CEBO Buildings. This balcony is one of their creations, which is more than just a backdrop as anyone can set a pose up on the balcony.  A lot of their backdrops come with poses that you can or cannot use.  Make sure you check out their Inworld store and Marketplace.  Oh, gotta leave Hubby is yelling down *giggling* he is wanting to go dancing since am dressed up…toodles ♥♥

Pose Foxcity Chill#1 ~
Prop ~ CEBO ~ Balcony

Shoes **Dirty Princess** Diamonds Forever Princess
American Beauty ‘O’ Diamond Necklace
CATWA Catya v4.0
**Sexy Princess**Elodie Gown
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Field
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
NO.MATCH_ NO.DIAMOND
NO.MATCH_ NO.I DONT.
ChopZuey Willow Love – Womens Wedding Band
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Not Found Laura

Am I…

Am I?

Oh, I am sure so many have asked this to themselves as they look in their SL mirrors ~ “Am I…” fill in the blank like am I pretty enough, am I funny, and the answers could go on and on.  Please remember this is your SL and what in my opinion counts is personality, and not being either a moron or an azzhole.  There are enough of those in RL ~ Sure you can look amazing, you can look drop-dead gorgeous and once you open your mouth you could be the biggest bitch anyone has seen that no one wants to be around you.  Wonder about why is it so hard to be kind in SL ~ saying hello to someone on your friends’ list, asking them sincerely how are they and listen to them.  Personally, I do not collect friends just to have friends ~ it’s like those on Facebook that have 1,000+ and probably know a quarter of them and I ask why?  Anyway, I just wanted to throw that out there and also tell you that I did make a new friend who I just had to compliment her on her Flickr images.  One of the owners of Upside Down Poses Tintin Tuxing has some amazing images plus they also have an area outside their store you can take some pics *where the above image was taken.  Always love finding new pose stores and area that allow you to rez items after you join the group ♥  Check out their stores as they do have some unique poses and hey they didn’t even pay me to say this hehehehe ♥♥

Location Upside Down Poses
Pose Wetcat Kaelyn #1

CATWA Catya v4.0
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Field
LEGENDAIRE AGAR OUTFIT
Maitreya Mesh Body- Lara V4.1
Moon. Hair. Chelsea Dagger
ChopZuey Willow Love-Womens Wedding Band
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Skin Not Found-Laura
Shape – Mine

know what…

KnowWhat
I gotta laugh when some say SL and RL are not the same ~ cuz you know what I think at times that it is exactly like RL where you have cliques, mean girls who ignore you in group chats and make anonymous posts about you…guess I should be standing on a soapbox while doing this instead of sitting with my cutesy reindeer…some things never change in 10 years that I have been a resident of SL ~ except thinking people have gotten bolder, more judgmental, and  meaner ~ cripes I get tired of asking questions in groups and not being answered or because someone asks a stupid question and gets a stupid answer from another someone lets all jump on that person when the answer was funny…okay will stop now because first it is getting closer to Christmas and am seriously trying to be more understanding and have more compassion for those type of people that seem to think they are better than others and take it upon themselves to say hurtful things…Let me instead talk about this past weekend with the Monthly Midnight Madness gifts ~ my outfit that I was able to get both Midnight & Noon came from Pink Cream Pie that fit my Maitreya body perfectly and looks very winterish ~ The cute pose/prop from Lil’Bug is a past Gimme Gacha pressie…that’s it for me today and to my friends and supporters of my blog you truly make me smile and I am thankful for each one of you ~ hugzz ♥♥

wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Monica Boots :: Maitreya :: Pink Cream Pie
Monica Dress :: Maitreya :: Pink Cream Pie
TRUTH HAIR May
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

thoughts…

Matching

Some may think its corny or way too not chic yet for me I do think its sweet when at times you wear matching tops ~ oh am not speaking about a daily or even a weekly thing ~ no that gets to be a tad creepy in my eyes seeing adults always dressed alike ~ the sweaters are from The Arcade by Bleich ♥  oh looking for more gifts head over there and in the middle there is a huge Christmas tree that you can see underneath a lot of gifts ~ still sorting stuff from all the Advents and group gifts ~ speaking of gifts for those that are members of Calas Ty and Truck have the rather fabulous scarves that you see wrapped around our neck as gifts this year…Little Frenchie is a past gift and is still out at the Pavilion for those looking for a cute pet…I am still curious about your thoughts if you think matching holiday sweaters are just creepy or they are alright in moderation…RL is screaming as today is my appointment with a surgeon nothing major ~ before I head out I wanted to comment on the nice remarks that have been getting on my blog posts ~ thank you so much for those as they do mean a lot to me ♥♥ till next time as it gets closer and closer to the big day take time out for yourself ~ enjoy a moment of peace, sip on your favorite drink whether hot, cold, alcoholic or not hehehe…

This was shot at our home using the Glamrus Pose White Christmas that am not sure exactly when or where I got it but they are now only on Marketplace.

wearing:

Brutus

3D MESHiah-Christmas hat
A&D Clothing – Pants -Austin-
Bleich – Xmas ’89 Ugly Sweater *TheArcade
CATWA HEAD Daniel v3.2
SIG GIANNI CHELSEA Boots
Stealthic – Like Lust
[CG2018] Mens Winter Scarf
[Signature] Gianni Body – Body – v4.6
-NIVARO- Skin – 04. Lion Tone

Wearing
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Beloved Jewelry : Snowflake Necklace/POE gift
Bleich – Xmas ’89 Ugly Sweater – Snow
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
SAVIN – CAMI LEATHER SKIRT – GREEN –
TRUTH / Athena
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
[CG2018] Ladies Tintable Winter Scarf
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears Left

enjoying…

enjoying

This truly is my favorite time of year and Christmas is my favorite holiday…did not matter if I barely had enough money to buy gifts or all that overtime made buying gifts easier I still love this holiday ~ for me with Christmas its the feeling you get by listening to Christmas carols, watching all those sappy Christmas movies like “Its a Wonderful Life” w/Jimmy Stewart that I end up bawling over even if I have never missed a year watching that movie…today am sitting with my tablet not even feeling the snow start falling, watching Pentatonix YouTube Christmas videos ~ O M G I am such a fan of their talents, the music and the voices that make up this group ~ they have a new Christmas album called Where are you Christmas ~ for those that might not be in the know of this group they are an Accapella group that I first saw on the reality show “The Sing-Off“, have been a fan ever since ♥  Guess, I should get up and go inside before I am covered in snow as now it is really coming down.  Today will start wrapping pressies in RL and sorting out more of my inventory from all the advents, hunts that I have done and the boxes are still cluttering up my inventory ~ It is hard to personally thank each and every designer that has given gifts at the Epiphany, Arcade, Gimme Gacha, and from the POE hunt ~ yet I appreciate all the gifts as most designers do truly show off their talents with their gifts ♥♥  what I can do is thank all of my readers ~ ones that take time out to comment and let me know they appreciate my blog as it makes me smile knowing♥ hugzz to all and remember December is the month of giving ~ give someone a smile or a hello today ♥

Shot at my home using the poses inside “{what next} ‘Wintry’ Pembury Bench ~ :CP: Roll in the Hay Firepit

wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
*barberyumyum*bangs
.EscalateD. Maike – Hair
WSC Black leggings
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
More Than Ever Snow Day Sweater Blue
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring – 
-KC- YETI WINTER BOOTS / PAIR
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

no peeking…

NoPeeking
Have you ever peeked inside one of your presents ~ were you happy you did or felt guilty afterward…One time during my high school years I had asked Santa *yes my parents made us still write Santa Lists*, for a pair of these very popular go-go boots *YES am old hehehe* My girlfriend kept pestering me about I should go peek to see if they got them ~ my tummy was rolling at that since peeking was not something I have ever done and really did not want to start now…since she lived 2 doors down and was always at my house she was becoming annoying with that question ~ on and on till I wanted to say shut up, stop, and alright already…end of the story is yes I did a small peek at the box that you could tell was a boot box but no I never fully opened it and the guilt of peeking was horrid ~ a little funny seeing even as a high schooler perfect was not a word to describe me ~ not a horrible person but did all that I could to push my parents buttons to the point of getting on restriction most of my teen years ♥ After my Dad passed away Christmas Eve was never the same especially for my Mom as her and my Dad would share that night putting out the pressies along with stocking stuff ~ one Christmas Eve  I wanted to do something special, before coming home from work, went to her favorite Chinese carryout, and splurged on her favorites that became our Christmas eve ritual for years to come…it is always nice to have those memories to look back to enjoy even if some are sad and not pleasant ♥ ♥ please remember December is the spirit of giving ♥

This was shot at a friends platform with the help of Delcinea and her partner Lord who I truly thank them for setting this up, giving me some suggestions & tips for future shots…

Props used :CP: Winter Cuddle Sofa (PG), JIAN Splendid Spaniels 19. Floor Snoozer, [Con.] Winter Wagons – Die Cast Car – Red, -David Heather-Fashionista Doll RARE, R(S)W Holiday Ornaments – Boxed, [LJ] Take Out – Potstickers, [LJ] Take Out – Wonton, [LJ] Take Out – Chopsticks, .random.Matter. – Holiday Crafts – Wrapping PaperDRD – My Miserable Holiday – Chair, DRD – My Miserable Holiday – Carpet, Something New No Peeking, and [FOURTH WALL] Mountain Lodge Skybox -Builders Box December 

Wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Sintiklia Bangs
Sintiklia Kimberly
WSC Black leggings
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
CATWA HUD Master F v3.2
CATWA HUD [C] Anim. Female v3.0
CATWA TEETH A [Small] v3.2
CATWA Tongue piercing
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE (resize script)
WSC Holly Christmas Sweater
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
-KC- YETI WINTER BOOTS
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

Cocoa anyone…

CocoaAnyone

Did you know there is a difference between hot cocoa and hot chocolate? According to Google and a Chocolate website there are differences as I thought it was only an usage of different words ~seem there is no real definition of either at least in today’s world yet “Traditionally, hot cocoa is a thin, sweetened beverage, made from cocoa powder, sugar, and milk. Hot cocoa may or may not contain other flavorings, such as vanilla, liqueur, or spices. Hot cocoa is often less rich and sweeter than hot chocolate. Historically, hot chocolate (also called drinking chocolate or sipping chocolate), is made with actual chocolate (often shaved or ground into fine pieces so it melts quickly). Because of the high-fat content of chocolate, hot chocolate is richer than hot cocoa. Hot chocolate made be made with water (traditional in some parts of Europe) or with milk. It is usually less sweet than hot cocoa, and many makers of hot chocolate pride themselves on having their product be a thick, bittersweet beverage.  Interesting to me my Mom would say hot cocoa because she made it from Hershey’s cocoa powder, sugar, and milk ~ when I got older would add in Baileys to give it a nice little pop.  I wonder how many are doing the POE hunt as this year there are a lot of nice things like the dress am wearing is from the hunt *check credits* ~ for those that are counting down till Christmas you have 18 more days till the big man delivers pressies ~ hugzz to all and to each of you remember to be kind to one another ♥♥

Shot on my land using Amitie Gift #3 pose ~

Wearing:
Sweet Tea Dreary Day Tights White Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
“”D!va”” Hair “Lisa” (Fantasies)
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
ChopZuey Reindeer are People Too!~GG last yearI
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
YELIZ MESH “Caven” Overknee Boots
[ASHBURY] Anya Sweater Dress Maitreya Lara-POE hunt
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

Good cause

ScareMe

Yes am back as my RL Dog/House Sitting is keeping me busy, which means I am pretty much unplugged since I only have a desktop ~ will help with my Christmas ~ now if you are looking for something to do that is for a good cause the Scare Me Silly event is ongoing with a lot of tricks/treat goodies for you ~ some of you just might know someone that has diabetes and a lot of the proceeds will go towards trying to find cures and assist individuals to help improve their lifestyle as they live with diabetes…A lot of designers have graciously created some items that 100% will go to this charity and will be able to show you one of them ♥

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Spiderwoman by BYRNE

Looking for a great costume for Halloween this will truly make an impression when you slip into this as well as grab an unsuspecting victim into your web hehehe ~ oh yes comes with those gloves, the Fang collar, and just remember those barbs are sharp ~ the xtra legs you can remove if you want ~ sexy, and very statement-making that the designer has made exclusive for this event and 100% will go to the Diabetes Foundation ~ Here is your ride to Scare Me Silly and to [BYNE] main store ~ enjoy…For those that have wondered about my blog, I will be back blogging full time starting on the 29th as I do have another long dog/house sitting job ~ till then remember to be good to yourselves ♥♥

wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
(BYRNE) SpiderWoman Dress – MAITREYA
(BYRNE) SpiderWoman Fang Collar
(BYRNE) SpiderWoman Glove LT- Maitreya
(BYRNE) SpiderWoman Glove RT- Maitreya
(BYRNE) SpiderWoman Legs
-SECRETS- Spider Mask Gift from [Glitzz]
CATWA EYES RIG Catya v3.2
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
CCD – Nose Piercing
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
Sintiklia Tanya
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears

Just hanging…

Just hanging...

I love when my brain is just stuck and bestie Dena will come up with a suggestion that truly rocks♥ What also rocks is the Rock your Rack event that is opening today for 2 weeks with 70 designers, live singers, fashion shows and more…Why should you because this event is all about Breast Cancer and monies donated help, someone, you might know to get a breast exam that possibly they couldn’t afford, the money helps to inform men and women signs of breast cancer and how to prepare them, the money helps to support someone who might be all alone going through this ~, yes all those donations, portions of the profits from the creators items at the Event go directly to The National Breast Cancer Foundation…See the hangers holding Dena and myself up they are part of the RYR hunt and designers have graciously provided an item that could be a top or a piece of decor ~ what I am wearing is the hunt prize from Sasheba’s Closet that is a Woodstock Duster …a gorgeous item that also comes with a hud of 3 color choices ~ I have seen a portion of the hunt items and for me they are worth way more than the 10L you just need to find the hanger at each booth and most are very easy to spot as they are pink♥  Enjoy and have fun at this event ~ rides will be below…also wanna know more about the RYR event please click HERE

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Shot at Backdrop City using Sigma Wire Hanger as the prop and a pose unknown in the Tillie #6 pose stand…Rides to Rock Your Rack, Exile, Hair Fair, pr!tty, and Sasheba’s Closet♥ 

am wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Dusk Special Butter/Browless
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
.:S.C:. Woodstock Duster @ RYR Hunt Prize
.:S.C:. Woodstock Jeans- Janis @RYR
:::NOIR::: MARGOT BOOTS
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Exile:: Trouble @Hair Fair
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Pearl Music Necklace Moonstone Stone’s Works@RYR
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears Right
Shape ~ mine

Dena’s wearing:
Pout Eye make-up
**RE** ReVoX Starly Ears
*JB* Skinny Suedes – Black – Lara
Black Chinablu Heels
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Finale Couture Demi Sweater – Gold Maitreya
IKON Hope Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
pr!tty – – Kammy @Hair Fair
Shape -Mine

Friends rock…

FriendsRock
I am wearing [WitchCraft] Marguerite dress
Dena Teardrop does rock as my best friend ~ especially during my bossy times LOL do not think She is a pushover cuz that is far from it♥ and just finding out that we have been friends for 3 years as I was looking at a pic of us ~ for most of us friends do make a difference in your SL or RL ~ someone you know will be there to listen, to commiserate, to laugh at your idiotic mistakes and to give you a spike of confidence when you might be needing it ~ after putting on [WitchCraft] Marguerite dress that is Limited for this event and 100% will be going to The National Breast Cancer Foundation ~ comes with a hud with 5 different choices of images ♥  Tomorrow Rock Your Rack will be open with a huge list of designers, entertainers and much more ♥  Please try to make it over there as this event is only for 2 weeks ~ The National Breast Cancer Foundation is an organization that helps with the cost of mammograms, educating the facts about breast cancer, and being there as a support system when needed ♥  There is no cure only early detection saves lives and I am so honored to show off items that designers have created just for this event like this sexy dress Marguerite by [WitchCraft]♥♥

Breast-Cancer-Awareness-Slogans

Shot at Backdrop City using Girlfriends pose by Frozen ~ Rides to [WitchCraft][KoKoLoReS], KMH{ViSion}, and Frozen 

Dena’s wearing:
Izzie Glittery Lipstick-May PP
Zibska Eyeshadow Dasia February PP
**RE** ReVoX Starly Ears
AnaSTyle – Lorena -not shown
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Starfall
KMH Hair Fair 2018 Gift Hair
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
{ViSion} //Annie Dress – Maitreya
Shape- Mine

Am Wearing:
Alma Lippy “Babygirl”
Pout Glitter Bomb EyeShadow
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
:::NOIR::: MARGOT BOOTS not shown
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Pearl Music Necklace Moonstone Stone’s Works@RYR
[KoKoLoReS] Hair – Signe @HairFair
[WitchCraft] Marguerite dress V2 Maitreya@ RYR
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape