how did we…

How did we

ummm am not sure how we ended up with packages squished behind our backs, just know bestie Dena and I do get ourselves in some predicaments *giggling* speaking of which, Dena was scrolling through the archives and was mentioning something that I realized her and I have known each other for 3 years ~ WOW that has to be a milestone since I will admit honestly to the fact that I can count on my longtime female friends on one hand…most seem to just fade away or because am not truly known for being politically correct will say what’s on my mind and poof have offended and am off their friends list ~ oh Dena and I have had our ups and downs yet we have survived as truly best friends do ~ we know each others RL history on things, we voice whenever possible because her and I at times will get the giggles and it just doesn’t come across in text that you are laughing so hard or that tone when you go “seriously”…we discovered mesh bodies together that was a totally new experience for both of us since we were so clueless on how to even put it on us hehehe, we can both calm each other down when one of us has screwed up our head or something that we need one another to figure out the answers…same with mesh heads even though Dena did get hers before me and talked me through the process, which I thank her for a lot ~ at times am sure her eyes roll back into her head with my actions or things I have said as again my mouth at times has no filter ~ looking at the above pic am sure we thought we were trying to figure out how to carry all those boxes, or possibly we were just being us in a silly moment that best friends have ~ gotta say am so grateful for her being my bestie and am wishing each of you find or have that bestie to share and make memories in SL ♥♥ till next time be kinder to yourself as you are the most important person in your life…

Shot at my home *now decorated in snow* using prop/pose by Amitie You are my gift

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte
Sweet Tea Dreary Day Tights Grey Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
*barberyumyum*bangs
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
NO.MATCH_NO.FAULT.
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring –
YELIZ MESH “CHIARA” Fur Uggs
YELIZ MESH “CHIARA” Long Sweater

Dena is wearing almost the exact thing with the following items
Astrology HI Sabrina
C’est la vie-Emmi
*YS&YS ILLY~ PP June 2018
Supernatural Nose Piercing Balian
IKON ~ Odyssey ~ Industrial

SL Winter…

Winter1

Its beginning to look a lot like Winter Wonderland around SL and I absolutely love it ~ especially with none of the biting cold effects that come being outside…wearing my heavy warm sweater by Perch that was a prize from the WOH, my Ugg boots and yes my hat because where I went it was snowing a lot…  Footprints in the Snow is a gorgeous sim with a lot of photo ops for you to take ~ if you are not too noisy you can get up close to the reindeer like I did *grinz* Winter is one of my favorite RL seasons and the creativity is limitless in SL that I am finding bunches of sims that have changed to winter that I will be exploring ~ there will be coming up soon the start of Advent season with various stores participating that I will try my best to keep you informed ~ Peace on Earth hunt starts also and that one is probably the biggest hunt of the season ♥  December will be a very full month that my wish is you will stick around with me ~ until then remember to take time out for yourself and this is your SL make the most out of what you want ~ hugzz♥♥

Shot at Footprints in the Snow using the pose from Hera another prize from the WOH hunt

Wearing
amara beauty ~ Charlotte in Honey PP October/Catwa
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
**RE** Luxy Rings – Maitreya Bento
Alyce – Ugg Boots
Cae :: Thalia :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
NO.MATCH_NO.EASY.
Perch – WOH Sweater [LARA]
Scandalize. Jana. Maitreya Jeans~Group Gift
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring

but first…

End of Autumn

ok case in point about “but first” as I was ready to do this blog had the title all picked out, image done and gawd I forgot to write down the title but first I had RL stuff laundry, etc to get done, then I remembered to check online email which OMG now I remember what this was *sheesh ~ whew good thing my brain kicked in reminding me what it was ~ SEE as I was telling Sady in a comment of her blog post how many have those “but first” *giggling* anyhooo first let me apologize to the bloggers that I do follow that I have been so lax in checking my SL email where their blog posts come to me and finally I checked it was like overflowing…not sure of what you all do with SL/RL emails but I do try to keep some separated with the exceptions of offline messages and a couple others as the rest goes to my SL email account I set up more to catch overflow and all the blog posts that I do follow ~ honestly I do try to either like and/or like & comment on those as I do have several favorites that I enjoy readying like Sady’s, Moz just to name a couple.  Most of the bloggers work hard creating scenes, explaining clothes and such that they deserve comments or likes ~ plus there are some that are very awe-inspiring that I love looking at like Kess Crystal who creates some amazing scenes…anyway am setting goals for next year that I will tell you about later…thats about it since RL is grabbing me again and tomorrow I have to get a CRT scan on my face or rather my sinuses as am not looking forward to that one bit…cya soon ~ hugzz ♥♥

Shot at my home using Foxcity GSits Vol2-3 

wearing:
Dreary Day Tights Black Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
**RE** Luxy Rings – Maitreya Bento
**RE** NOX Alegoria bracelet
.: ROHINI :. 1NNOVAT1ON Boots
:::Sn@tch Larkin Outfit (MAITREYA):::
Cae :: Sienna :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
NO.MATCH_NO.LEVEL. (female / cap )
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring

Worry…

Worry
I saw a sign earlier today while I was scouting around at Backdrop City that said “most of the stuff people worry about never happen” and I tend to agree as many people spend their lives worrying over trivial things at times never taking chances that would lead to adventures or new experiences ~ worrying makes you older ~ life is too short to worry about little things ~ make a promise to yourself for 2019 that you will try something new ~ take a step out of your comfort zone…

“Tomorrow is a new day; let today go so you can begin tomorrow well and serenely, with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. Each new day is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on yesterdays.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

shot at Backdrop City using [BDPoses] Kristine #3

 

wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Sintiklia Bangs 2
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
LEGENDAIRE CHARLIZE JEANS *Black Friday special on MP
LEGENDAIRE CHARLIZE LONG CARD
LEGENDAIRE LEGENDAIRE CHARLIZE BOOTS
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
NO.MATCH_NO.PROBLEM. *Gacha
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring

shopaholics…

Budget

Even shopaholics love bargains and being this is a huge shopping day “Black Friday we both knew that SL is not immune to taking part in …we got a lot from our go-to list “Seraphim” that listed 90% of the stores that are advertising Black Friday specials ~ sadly I wish the list would have included details about the sales and before I begin this is just IMO regarding the “sales” ~ there were a number of stores that really had some fantastic bargains giving you a true “Black Friday” sale…each store did have its own version of sales, a lot was fatpacks only that am not a huge fan of buying ~ some had removed everything except the fatpacks that gave you no choice to buy any single colors ~ yes I understand stores need to make money it is just that I would have bought several different items of different single colors that might have exceeded the cost of couple fatpacks but my choice was taken away.  Again this was just my opinion regarding the Black Friday sale of just selling fatpacks and nothing else…Dena and I got really some fabulous bargains mostly half off or a lot were even under 75L ~ the outfits that we are wearing did come from Fifty Linden Friday event ~ the sweater dresses came from erratic and my hair is from Wasabi ~ now I just have to unpack, sort and put into folders another chore am not fond of is cleaning my inventory that is for another day ~ enjoy your weekend and will be back soon ♥hugzz

Shot at Backdrop City using [ west end ] pose “See what you’re seeing” ~

Dena wearing 

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
.::Supernatural::. Balian #4 Silver/nose stud
MINA Hair – Lily
CATWA HEAD Catya 3.2
erratic / malin – sweater / pink xmas (maitreya) ~ 50L
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Industrial
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
-KC- YETI WINTER BOOTS / PAIR

Am wearing

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
/Wasabi Pills/ Ginny Windblown Mesh Hair ~ 50L
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
EF: Nimbus Necklace
erratic / malin – sweater / pink xmas ~ 50L
IKON Odyssey Eyes Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring –
KC- YETI WINTER BOOTS / PAIR

thankful…

Thankful

On the eve before one of the bigger American holidays Thanksgiving, I feel very thankful for so many things ~ the biggest one is am happy here in SL and RL again… it has been a year since I moved to a new place in RL and am truly blessed to be among such caring friends with the added plus of making genuine friends, and started a small dog sitting venture that is keeping me busy…as far as SL yes I will admit that I unpartnered for reasons that I just was not happy and haven’t been for almost a year and a half…having a partner for me was very special as I would have someone to go exploring, go dancing, making couple pics with ~ sadly it just didn’t work out that way and I kept on coasting through debating if I should move on but in a way I was afraid to hurt this person…my RL girlfriend told me that I have to put myself first and start thinking of me instead of always putting myself last ~ now she was not thinking or commenting on Second Life as firstly she is clueless about SL and doesn’t get the attraction, which is fine but her words just resonated with me regarding SL and then I knew it was time to let go, move forward and seek what makes me happy ~ so yes I unpartnered not for any other reason but the fact that I was tired of being unhappy…there is always a little bit of sadness when you unpartner or break up with someone and all I can say is if you are not happy in a relationship you have to make the decision if you want to be happy ~ I did and honestly am thankful I did ♥  My wish is for all my friends that are sharing in this holiday tomorrow may you all have a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving ~ thank you again to all those that take time to read and follow my blog posts as it truly truly makes me so happy to hear someone say “I follow your blog” ♥ till next time take care of YOU♥

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! 

whiteout…

Whiteout

Lets talk winter clothes in SL ~ there is some debate that designers should be putting out more clothes for winter as most of us looking out our windows it is winter time where people are wearing jackets, coats and sweaters indoors…for me personally and speaking with bestie Dena and couple other friends they do like to dress seasonally as well as decorate their homes and land also ~ now on the other side of the coin the consensus is that SL is always spring or summer so why wear winter clothing ~ there is no right or wrong answer for this as SL, which has a variety of sims that are winter with skiing, snowboarding and other winter activities that I absolutely love doing as am such a klutz on RL skis is a joke but in SL I can make it down the hill without falling on my azz LOL ♥ I would love to hear comments about this hot topic so please either comment on my blog or send me either an IM or NC inworld ~ my outfit is one from Ever an Angel close out sale that each one is only 50L and Dena is wearing a group gift from Scandalize that the group fee is FREE for the moment plus there is a huge wall of gifts for you to choose one or all ~ Dena and I along with Brutus to scout around for some winter sims just know that soon our most favorite of all winter sims “Christmas at Calas” will be coming soon as I know many of you have been there and love it as it always is one of the number 1 winter destinations ♥ I am so excited to see Ty and Truck’s creation every year as it just has that special magic ~ keep your eyes pealed to my blog for more details ~ thank you again to all my readers that have stayed with me through various transitions I am 99% sure that I have found my niche ♥♥

Dena wearing:
Glam Affair ~ Basic Lights
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catyav3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Dew
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Scandalize. Coat FUR/Mesh.
Scandalize. Megan. PANTS.
Scandalize. Top.
.:KC:. MONY Short Uggs /
[^.^Ayashi^.^] Nagi hair

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte in Honey
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Sweater
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Leggings
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
LEGENDAIRE REBECA ANKLE BOOTS
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
MINA Hair – Frankie
Slipper – Cadence Rings
Chop Zuey Willow Love

the look…

TheLook

Ok ok I will say that most hated those pants I wore in yesterdays blog post and in defending them *the pants* it was a futuristic look that I was going for not your everyday glam look ~ I get it everyone agreed with bestie…and she loved that LOL ~ that is just one reason of the reasons that even after 10 years in SL I still love SL ~you can log in, put on a favorite outfit or one that you created by mixing and matching different items that may or not be made by the same designer, especially with the creation of mesh the clothes look fantastic ~ giggling as I remember back when we thought flexi was all that ~ so you wear something that possibly your friends are giving you the eye and wondering what possessed you just remember this is your SL ~ your clothes, your hair, your look is how you want it, so wear it proud and one last thing just remember you might have to explain your attire to those around you hehehe like I did, which brings me to todays outfit is from Ever An’ Angel that the owner has graciously put out a 50L per outfit notice due to closing the clothes side of their store…so grab your lindens to head out and try to decide which outfits you are wanting for your closet…before I do close truly want to say thank you to my readers, my friends who are still taking time out to read my blog as am now in a much better place doing a little this and that and rambling on about it *grinz* ~ take care ♥

Shot at Backdrop City using stool by Diesel Works Barstool~ 

wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
.::Supernatural::. Drih Belly Piercing
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
Ever An’ Angel – Light Dance Top
Ever An’ Angel – Light Dance Trousers
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
LEGENDAIRE REBECA ANKLE BOOTS
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Slipper – Cadence Rings – Maitreya.R
Chop Zuey Willow Love
[monso] My Hair – Ruda /Mixed

Ready…

Ready

Am baaack and ready to get back into blogging ~ if you noticed I changed my blog title again because something was not just right for me just being one type of blogger and I was only fooling myself into that type of thinking ~ maybe am not one of the top ten fashion bloggers, or destination bloggers or decor bloggers and maybe I do not have to have a ton of sponsors to feel good about who I am in Second Life ~ what I know for myself is I love taking pics whether it’s showing off clothes, destinations, friends or whatever and talking about the images ~ that is who I am ~ that is why I changed the title as it will be about this and that and not just fashion, not just a specific destination but a little of this, a little of that and I honestly want to make my blog interesting, informative, funny and possibly a little bit controversial…my hopes that you all will stick around and still support me as each of you have done with your comments and likes…thanks again♥

Shot at Backdrop City using gunpose #2 from -DeminAtions and I will do my best to include the LM’s just don’t shoot me if I forget ♥♥ btw bestie Dena truly hated those pants but I thought they worked perfectly for this shot hehehe

wearing: 

amara beauty -Charlotte skin in Honey PP Oct 2018
***ArisArisB&W~Alus87~ Imperial Harem Pant ~Maitreya
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE
enVOGUE HAIR – Ravenna Bento
IKON Odyssey Eyes
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Pure Poison – Gillian Sneakers
Slipper – Cadence Rings
Storybook – NO FVCKS – Savage
The Annex – Delilah Skirt – Pink Gradient Denim
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring
Yasum*Maitreya*Belly Gem*

Fall is here…

CalasFall1.png
Fall has arrived at Calas

Arriving you can feel the crispness in the air looking about seeing the pumpkins scattered about along with the trees in all their splendor as you see autumn vibe all over Calas ~ there is this calmness that comes over you when you land as well as you can rez a gorgeous Water Horses to ride on the great trails that will take you around to the different sims that make up Calas…If you want a slower pace just set out walking to enjoy the gorgeous foliage that Ty and Truck have generously provided for some perfect photo ops ~ Calas is a place to explore, enjoy and there are carefully placed spots that you and a special someone can dance, cuddle or just sit ~ If you are all about good music Truck has pulled together a fantastic mix of music so remember to turn your sounds on to enjoy his always great selections of tunes ♥  Looking down the sidewalk you can see another favorite spot of mine…

CalasFall2.png
Calas Coffee House 

A quiet spot to relax, sip on some coffee and just possibly people watch ~ I spoke with the 2 male visitors JakEnglandMartinn Moonites who are fans of Calas and both love coming here as much as possible…long time residents of SL they just have some really good memories visiting Calas and both enjoy seeing the change of seasons as much as myself…No matter how many times I walk around Calas and take pics am always spotting little details that Ty and Truck lovingly work in as it might be a new cat since we all know Truck loves cats with even he is not sure how many are on Calas but the number is in the double digits…From boat and balloon tours taking you around Calas, there is much to enjoy.  As well the Oz nightclub that when you arrive the schedule of live singers for you to plan a date night as Ty and Truck choose the best of the best singers, …after 10 years Calas is one place I never get bored coming here to enjoy, to take pics and to ride my WaterHorse around…please take this LM  to Calas to see as the pics don’t truly do justice to such a wondrous place ♥